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PhysicianWhat Happened to My Family?
Wednesday, August 13, 2008 
My daddy died suddenly on October 30th, 2001. That loss affected my life more than I probably still understand and recognize. I was in my office when a fellow from my home town called me. I remember his exact words, “Wade, there is no easy way to say this. They found your dad dead in his pickup. . ."
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PhysicianSudden Dementia
Thursday, June 05, 2008 

I am glad I know that dementia does not have a sudden onset, otherwise I would be worried. I go to a room and stand there wondering what it is I am looking for. Then, I loose my cell phone. While scratching my head with one hand, I realize my phone is in the other. I was going to tell my wife a story the other day about a man I met. I couldn’t remember his name. By the time I gave up on remembering his name, I forgot the story...

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PhysicianDogmatic, Until it Gets Personal
Friday, May 23, 2008 
There is nothing that can change our opinion and stance on issues like personal experience. I sometimes wish I had what appears to be passion to be really for or really against something, to get on my soapbox, on the bad wagon. However, I am plagued with “seeing both sides” on most issues...
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PhysicianNot Afraid to Die
Monday, May 12, 2008 
In the winter of 1919, my great uncle Roy McCoy developed a cough and fever. The story goes that the country doctor was called and came to his bedside. The doctor didn’t have anything to offer except the basic treatments of the day. Roy got sicker and the doctor was called again. When the doctor left, he told the family that Roy was likely going to die... Read More
    
PhysicianWhy Doctors are Arrogant
Wednesday, April 30, 2008 

The doctor that delivered me (or should have delivered me if he had made it to the delivery)practiced medicine for over fifty years in a very small town. He was plain spoken, brutally honest, blunt, at times rude, but never accused of being arrogant...

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PhysicianMute Doctors
Wednesday, April 23, 2008 
One of the best sitcom episodes I have ever seen was an old black and white Dick Van Dyke Show.  This episode was based on the different perceptions of a particular day of Rob and Laura, the leading characters played by Dick Van Dyke and Mary Tyler Moore. Each character saw themselves as the heroic contributor to the marriage while seeing the other as a grouch hardly bearable that day...
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PhysicianA Beautiful Mind
Saturday, April 12, 2008 
The brain is the organ of the mind. One of the mysteries of the world is the human brain trying to understand the human brain. How can the organ of the brain really understand that part of the body that produces thought and emotion? In short, I believe we understand the brain in a very limited manner. Only in the last 30 years have we had the ability to alter the brain chemistry without causing more problems than cure...

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PhysicianChanging Course
Friday, March 28, 2008 

I am a sailor. I am not a very good sailor, but I have never drowned anyone! I have also never crashed my boat. My success lies mainly in being overly cautious about the days and conditions that I sail. Sailing can be used well for illustrations for life. Other than the challenge of learning the lingo and techniques, I think sailing draws people in because it is largely a metaphor of life...

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PhysicianWhy is Grandma So Confused?
Tuesday, March 18, 2008 
I have an elderly patient that is in and out of the hospital with his chronic lung condition. He is a WWII veteran. After a day or two in the hospital, he starts reliving his days in the war. Before it is over, he starts shouting out orders and calling in bombers... Read More
    
PhysicianThe Fred Sanford Syndrome
Tuesday, February 26, 2008 
Fred Sanford is alive and well! Surely you will recall Fred (on the televison show Sanford and Son) crying out while holding his chest, “Here I come Elizabeth, this is the big one!” The only problem was-- death was usually near only when he needed rescue from the wrath of someone... Read More
    
PhysicianDo We Have to Treat?
Tuesday, February 26, 2008 

Standing in his hospital room on a cold January day, we had a good discussion about where life was headed for their dad. These are conversations that should be between patients, doctors, nurses, and families. The matters of life and death should include long honest discussions...

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